Well the garden is finally slowing down a bit and now I rather regret wishing death upon the zucchini plants. The tomatoes are finally ripening and what is not infested with blossom end rot is being used dutifully in virtually every dinner. Thankfully, this year we have enough surplus to make pasta sauce which has made PP happy. Apparently the fact that everybody has had tomato problems this year isn't any reason to feel better. I made some more zucchini bread today and I think that will probably be the last of the season. This weekend's plans involve a batch of zucchini mustard pickle to keep in the store as we are getting a bit low on that (funny, it seems to be the only thing we are low on!!).
The constant baking, stewing, picking, gardening etc has got me thinking about how much commitment it takes and what kinds of things make it easier. I have come to the conclusion that support is the most important factor in giving you the will to get through yet another batch of chutney.
Being in an academic environment I automatically (and as it turns out, naively) assumed that what I have been doing would be generally well thought of in our little community. How wrong I was. It is no secret that academics are nuts. I was just having this conversation with another fellow phd-er yesterday. We concluded that 90% of the academics, and students, in our department were completely bonkers. And we aren't talking the same kind of insanity, one that you could build up some sort of standard arsenal against. Academics like to mix it up a little and god forbid if any one of them was deemed batty in the same kind of way as their arch nemesis across the hallway. They like to keep you on your toes. But I'm deviating. What I didn't expect was how, well, backward, academics, at least in my field, seem to be.
Whilst only my close friends know of what PP and I aspire to do, I have often thought about voicing my opinions at one of the weekly lunches held by my department. I'm glad I haven't. Let me take you back to a simpler time, a time when I didn't realise that sometimes, academia is completely nonsensical, irrational and dare I say it, Machiavellian. I was sitting in the tea room when colleagues of mine began discussing the environmental arm of our university. Up for discussion: their policy's impacts on departmental conferences, experimentation etc. What happened shocked me. In a room of well-educated, intelligent individuals, a tirade against the environmental arm was let out. And the main point? My work, my experiment, my whatever - is more important than these policies designed to protect our natural environment. I guess I should not have been surprised. Almost 10 years at university has taught me that academia is nothing if not insular, but I thought this, of all the places to work, would be a place where such ideas would be welcomed. Granted, I do not come from a science faculty and perhaps if that were so, the reactions might have been different. But they weren't. So for now, I'm glad I kept my mouth shut, lest they think I will try to convince them all to drink from the wheat grass kool-aid.
Amongst my own friends, both academic and non, the reaction to our beliefs and our dreams has generally been accepted and supported. Even those to whom the idea of moving to some rural area and spending weekends and evenings traipsing through a vegie patch and mucking out chicken coops seems like a waking nightmare, have voiced their support. They realise that ultimately, this is going to make us happy.
There have been one or two dissenters though. Which I always expected. Nobody is always going to agree with you and there will always be those who believe that they are right and you are wrong. And that's ok. The most notable of those likened our decision to live a sustainable lifestyle and have a market garden as to their choice to "become a pirate." There is a lot I can say about that including:
1. Piracy is illegal
2. I'm sure piracy is a socially acceptable career path in some countries
3. I don't intend on buying a parrot or sporting a wooden leg
4. Who do you think grows your food? Robotic Winged Monkeys?
But ultimately, all I could really do was laugh about it, and gleefully imagine them in my head as a pirate. And whilst I know that this comes from a place of concern, I believe it is more about what people think we SHOULD be doing, rather than what is best for us as a couple and what we WANT to be doing. Unfortunately, this kind of attitude does not seem rare. Going against the grain is not easy. Stepping outside your comfort zone, and, it would seem more drastically, outside of those around you can have repercussions that you would never have thought of. Luckily for me, PP is as supportive as ever, I have many amazing friends and family members who believe in us, and finally - we are convinced that what we are trying to do is the right thing to do.